STUPID INLOVE

I'M A HUGE FAN OF READING AND WHEN I READ ALL KINDS NOVELS AND MAGAZINES OUT CURIOUSITY AND IT'S EVEN BETTER IF I FIND A READ THAT WILL LEAD ME TO HYSTERICAL MOMENTS, BUT RECENTLY I WAS HOME BORD AND FOUND A BAG OF MAGAZINES RIGHT NEXT TO ME AND READ ON, WHERE I CAME ACROSS A LETTER TO THE EDITOR SECTION WHERE A TITLE CAUGHT ME "GET LOST FOOZY" , IT READS " TO THE GOLD DIGGER PURSUING MY HUSBAND: IT HAS BEEN 10YEARS AND STILL YOU WON'T STOP. DON'T YOU THINK YOU'RE OVER DOING IT? I HAVE REASONED WITH YOU MANY TIMES BUT YOU WON'T STOP. I THOUGHT YOUR OUTER APPEARENCE WAS BAD BUT IT SEEMS YOU'RE EVEN WORSE ON THE INSID. DON'T MISTAKE MY GOOD NATURE FOR A WEAKNESS. I WON'T GIVE UP 21YEARS OF HISTORY WITH MY HUSBAND FOR FLOOZY LIKE YOU. (http://www.you.co.za/)  NOW AS I AM  DONE READING THAT FLASHES GO THROUGH MIND AND I THOUGHT TO MYSELF AT WHAT POINT DO US AS WOMEN ACTUALLY PUT UP WITH BEING CHEATED ON AND TAKE THE MANS SIDE AND HAVE US TELL WOMEN OFF OF OUR MEN INSTEAD OF PUTTING A STOP OR JUST STANDING UP FOR OURSELVES WHEN THESE BUSTED GO RUNNING OFF WITH SOME YOUNGOR PRETTIER WOMEN THEN OURSELVES. THE THING MAKES ME LAUGH THE MOST IS THAT I THINK BACK TO THE DAY WHEN I WAS FIRST CHEATED ON (YES IT HAS BEEN MORE THEN ONCE) AND THE AMOUNT OF FEELING THAT GO THROUGH YOUR SYSTEM OF WHICH ARE DISBELIEF:AT FIRST EVEN THOUGH YOU SAW THE MORON WITH THE OTHER WOMEN YOU MAKE EXCUSES, DENIAL:   YOU CALL YOUR FRIEND TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER, BARGAINING: YOU CONFRONT HIM ABOUT IT BUT HE ONLY MAKE FEEL STUPID AND BLAMES YOU FOR CHEATING ON YOU, GUILT: YOU FEEL GUILTY AND STAY WITH HIM IN VAIN, ANGER: YOU CHEAT ON HIM BACK WHICH DOES NOT HELP YOUR SITUATION, DEPRESSION: YOUR EMOTIONS LEAD YOU TO BAD MOUTHING HIM TO HIS FRIENDS AND EMBARASSING YOURSELF, ACCEPTENCE AND HOPE: BUT REALLY TO ME THAT WAS TOO LITTLE TOO LATE AND TIME WASTED BECAUSE FOUR YEAR OF GIVING SOMEONE YOUR LOVE IN VAIN IS DRAING. I'M CONFUSED AS TO WHY MUST WE WOMAN BUT OURSELVES THROUGH SUCH PAIN.